Perhaps the nights and weekends are the hardest — replaying what you wish you'd said, wondering how you'll manage the finances, the kids, the future you'd planned together. Maybe it's the friends who love you but go quiet, unsure what to say, so you end up comforting them instead.
Maybe you've quietly asked why me?
I know this place.
I lost my husband suddenly and became a single parent overnight, carrying my own grief while holding space for my daughter's. The nights and Saturday evenings were the hardest.
What changed everything wasn't time — it was building a real plan. One that helped me get honest about my finances, my faith, my family, and my health, so I could move forward with direction instead of just surviving each day.
I learned I could grieve for him deeply and still laugh, still dream — not by letting go of him, but by carrying him forward with me. It means moving forward, without ever moving on from the love you shared.
- You're someone who's always shown up for everyone else. But grief has left you exhausted, heavy, and unsure who you are anymore.
- You have always been capable and used to having the answers. People typically come to you for answers, but this is one thing you can't figure out alone.
- You're still standing in the aftereffects of the life you built together. But everyone else has quietly moved on, and you're left to navigate this by yourself.
- You're tired of hearing "be patient with yourself. Give yourself time”. What you need is an actual plan — clear, practical steps you can follow, starting today.
This Is What I'm Here To Teach You
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How To Recreate And Rebuild Your Life After The Death Of Your Spouse, While Still Honoring The Memory Of Your Loved One
I've Made A Free 30-minute Video Where I'm Teaching Widows How to Recreate and Rebuild Their Lives After the Death of Your Spouse
Here's My Specific Experience
- 30+ years in mental health and wellness
- Licensed Therapist
- Grief Recovery Specialist
- Human Services Consultant
- Podcast Co-Host
- Author
- Widower
- Mother
